The situation is: you were dumped by your love, for some reason you don't know or know very well what. The fact is that you, overnight, changed your status and you weren't prepared for it. If the possibilities of reconciliation are exhausted and this is definitely the end of your relationship, the way is to forget, isn't it? Here are five steps to get started on that journey, which can be difficult or less difficult, but never easy.

1. Blocked
Excluding from your life, completely, the person you lived with for so long, like that, from one day to the next, is not easy. But here we are talking about you, who were not prepared for the end of the relationship and who were surprised by a unilateral decision. As much as she was understanding, even without agreeing, and that the end does not represent the end of a friendship for him, the focus here is to fall out of love with the one who no longer loves you. At least, not as you would like.Blocking this person from your social media can be a start. The move, apparently radical, will help you escape that truth that his life goes on just fine without you. It's not forever. It doesn't have to be. But right now, it's worth a try.

2. Rescue what you were missing
In a relationship, we end up giving up something or another that was part of our routine, before dating. Whether it's that weekly meeting with friends, that sacred reading before bed, that freedom of being able to choose to stay at home on a Saturday and catch up on all the songs you want to hear, all the bands you want to explore. Or the contact with that ex-boyfriend who became a friend, but you had to keep some distance. Sometimes we don't even realize what we give up. After all, the routine next to him was also delicious. But rescuing those commitments to yourself, which were yours alone, consoles and comforts the heart.

3. New projects
If the end of the relationship causes you that discouragement, you will swim against the tide and, on the contrary, make this moment the most productive of your life. Working, meeting people, engaging in new projects. Creating and working are always great retreats. Take the opportunity to touch that idea that was lost between the commitments of the relationship.

4. Love with another love heals
It was an exaggeration to speak of love in the title of this item. But a lap at this time helps a lot. You will not engage or deceive anyone with false promises, no, that's not it. The thing is, after the breakup, you get super needy and, for some people, going through this phase with the help of friends is not enough. What we mean is that you should give yourself a chance to get to know other people better. Who knows, the one who was always trying to get your attention?

5. Take a trip
Any destination is worth it. The important thing is that you learn to be alone or, at least, without him. You will come to the conclusion that some programs you used to do together don't need to get out of your routine. Just change company. It's normal to cry at bedtime, it's really a critical moment. But at the end of the trip, you'll be safer to start over.

With the exception of the first action, blocking, the other actions can be taken over time. Going out to a party to try to forget about your boyfriend the day after the end of the relationship in less than 7 days of the end of the relationship, will cause a very deep pain, and a very great discomfort. Of course, not only are these 5 attitudes we should do to forget about an ex boyfriend or an ex hookup, but they are some of the most important attitudes. These attitudes are ways, paths, of you who had a great disappointment, to resume your life little by little and with that to get used to living without your ex.
Remember that that man who loved you or who just felt desire for you, doesn't exist anymore! So don't stay behind a man who will never be that love again from the beginning, simply because he stopped loving you or wanting you, and now it's you who will come back to love you, and finally have other loves.